A Prayer of Thanksgiving

Re Best Practices, May

Last week, on Sunday afternoon, I made myself a small salad and had more reason than ever to say grace. The salad greens were from the church garden, an experiment brought to reality by several new moms in the congregation. The garden has been framed and placed on top of the existing lawn, in case it has to be dismantled. Every Sunday this summer, there have been carefully picked and washed greens that taste considerably better than anything from a store. Everything is lovingly tended.

What I am most grateful for? About a year ago, one Sunday in church I noticed a man sitting by himself. I’m definitely one of those people who would rather speak with people I know than people I don’t; however, I have an uncle who told me that “a stranger is just a friend you haven’t met yet,” and a friend who told me how important it is to welcome new people if they are visiting for the first time and invite them back.

So, even though it was uncomfortable, I introduced myself to him. Then we talked to the minister and just about everyone else. In fact, by the time fellowship hour was almost over, someone asked me how long I had known him and how we became friends! He came back, and brought his wife and young daughter. Members of their extended family have come and their daughter is a vibrant fixture amongst the tight-knit preschool “mini-church” that seems to have a life of its own!

The church garden is thriving because it has been carefully tended, watered and culled by a couple of the moms of the little children. One of them is the wife of the family that I welcomed. The garden is a good example of purpose, passion and good practices and it’s a healthy green spot in the community.

So, my prayer over my salad was one of thanksgiving and amazement for the blessings of being led to reach out. The next time there’s a new face in a pew, introduce yourself. People I have welcomed say they have come back because of the warm initial welcome!