How to avoid conflict

We know it’s okay to experience emotions, even anger. And now we have some ways to deal with anger when it happens. But how can we avoid making other people angry? Most of the time, we don’t do it on purpose. Knowing what actions or attitudes of our own that cause anger in others is the first step. These are called “button pushers”. Next time someone gets angry with you, ask them what you did to “push their anger button”. Jot down in a journal or notebook, each time this happens. Soon, you’ll have a list of things to avoid – but remember, these will be different for everyone. The good news is you’re not alone! God has gifted us with the fruit of the spirit to help us: show kindness towards others to avoid angering them, and practice self-control in yourself to avoid getting angry.