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The Good with the Bad
We were first appointed to Malawi in 1980. Our “first born,” as Malawians would say, was just a year old.
We were first appointed to Malawi in 1980. Our “first born,” as Malawians would say, was just a year old.
As a child growing up in Nigeria, I often wondered what being a “proper” missionary kid was like.
A very indignant woman was on my doorstep. “Madam!” she demanded. “Don’t you hear your baby crying?!”
Our oldest son, Ian had just turned three when we began our first tour in the coastal city of Calabar, Nigeria. Painful as it was taking him away from his grandparents, the Nigerians assured us that they would be our family.
This is a special time of year to reflect on what it was like growing up as a missionary kid in Japan.
We received all sorts of backhanded compliments from friends as we packed up for Malawi in late 2010.
Living in Taiwan our boys experienced life as a “visible minority,” but when they moved back to Canada they were an “invisible minority.” On the outside they looked like average Canadians, but culturally they were a Taiwanese-Canadian blend.
We were first appointed to Malawi in 1980. Our “first born,” as Malawians would say, was just a year old.
Those first months learning to adapt to life with children and learning how to parent within a Malawian context were filled with a mixture of excitement, uncertainty, terror and joy.
In Grade 2, instead of playing Cops and Robbers at recess, we played “Palestinians and Israelis.”