In the Christian tradition 40 days is a time of trial or judgement – think of the Israelites wandering in the desert, Jesus’ temptation after his time in the desert, among others. This small child has also had a time of trial, but on the 40th day of her life she surpassed her birth weight of 1.680 kg. She was discharged just a few days later having continued to increase her weight with breastfeeding alone.
On the 41st day of her life we had a little party – hopefully not too bewildering to some of the other moms & dads in the little NICU, where we shared some chocolate cake and tea. There was apparently some confusion at first, since we also brought our own baby: “Why was the doctor having a party for his baby?” was a question asked, quite rightly, by one of the newer moms. Satisfactory explanations eventually ensued.
Words of encouragement and thanks, both for her mother, and for the medical & nursing team were spoken.
The child is still not yet officially named, but I believe that God has named this child nonetheless, and loves her at least as much as any of us ever could (words spoken by our minister a few years ago).
Psalm 139 “For you know my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.”
Yes it is!
Is this the same baby in “I want her to live” ?